I know it has been a really long time.. and I hate that. Alot has happened since Nov 21, the last time I posted, so, it possibly will take me a while and a few blogs to catch up.
*Normally*, I would have my kids every other weekend, but in the last 3 mos, I have had them almost every weekend. I so totally don't mind that. I love spending time with them. I do feel overwhelmed tho, because this have been a lil bit different so far this holiday season. When Greg is on the road, I have a clean house, because I don't mess much up by myself, and I have my daughters to clean their room because they are old enough to do so.
But when Greg is home, even when it's just me and him, it makes it hard to keep up...Greg's philosophy is a lil different than mine, like alot of other men, most of his stuff goes exactly where he leaves it.....NOT in it's place. Extremely hard to keep up when 2 of our kids, or both sets are there. I can't keep up so I typically don't try...doesn't do me any good.
So, therefore, I haven't put much effort in getting on here, or Myspace. When I do have down time by MYSELF.....I try to or at least attempt to catch up, which leaves not much time for this.
I finally got a kiddo free weekend this last one..and I took some time to make plans for lunch with Chelle. We ate and caught up, then made it over to her place so she could give me what she made for me for Christmas. I will have to post a pic of it later, but I think its absolutely awesome. What I thought was even more awesome happened when she had her gender sonogram. She sent me this text message saying. "Don't say anything or post it on myspace, its a Christmas surprise, but.....IT'S A GIRL!!!!"
Just like the blubbering idiot I was when I found out she was preggers with Garrett, I cried..no big surprise. I know how much she wanted a baby when she got pregnant with him, and I cried when I found out with this one, and when I found out she was having a girl, because, I know how long it took her to get pregnant and how much she wanted a daughter.
It made me feel pretty special because there have been ups and downs in our relationship, just like most. But the connection that she and I have on some level has kept us "together" for nearly 9 years. No one can break that. I respect the fact that I am not her only friend and won't be. I don't expect her to drop everything for me, and she doesn't expect it from me. I don't want to hinder her life, so I don't try to.
Anyway, so, I got to see all of Tori's clothes, and cute lil shoes (cept for the ones that Chelle couldn't find and wanted to)...all her lady bug bedding and other things. She is so excited about this little girl...I don't blame her. Girls are so much fun...I know...I have 2. Was so fun to dress them up...do their hair...etc..and I am glad she will get to do that.
Anyway, think I will close for now...its nearly time to start getting ready to go home, so, I need to close my brain from the blog so I can store up more stuff to write later.....hopefully really soon later....LOL
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